Horses tell us that there are three steps to a healthy, prosperous relationship.

1. Get a connection!
2. Make a suggestion!
3. Take it one step at a time!

Step 1: Get a connection

In order to connect with anyone, do this by first wanting to connect with them, and next have a wanting to know where they are. This is called “Paying Attention” to THEM first. We do this because they are important to us, and we want a connection with them. Once you are “With” them then go to step to 2, but not until you are “With” them and they are “With” you.

Step 2: Make a Suggestion

With your body language make a suggestion. First offer an invitation toward what you would like to happen and then look for the slightest opportunity to show your joy, to say YES when they move toward what you want.

Step 3: Take it one step at a time

Take it one step at a time. Rather than rush to “What’s Next”, ask yourself “What Now?” Be present with desire and gratitude at the same time.
Try it now, say “What’s next?” and see how it feels.
Then say “What now?” and feel the difference.
Take one step at a time and watch the magic begin to unfold.

See if you can find all three steps unfolding in this small video, where Brenda is free to be wherever she wants, and watch the relationship play out.

Accelerated Bonus Step:

How to speed things along and get that relationship you want faster than you could imagine.

“Take the time it takes and it will take less time”.

Come and experience the truth of these three steps and many more personal development principles through the way of the horse at our next HKTWH workshop. For more information on HKTWH workshops click here!

Feel the Connection,
Brian Reid